Anal Toys for Beginners

Anal sex is fun. At least, it should be. Inexperience and impatience can ruin your first time but with a little education, your first time can be one that leaves both partners wanting more.

Tips for Better Anal Play

Go Slow

The anus is a muscle that's main job is to stay closed. It takes time to relax that muscle until it can open to accept penetration.
Start with external stimulation such as gentle massage around or directly over the anus. Analingus can also feel good. 

Seriously, Go Slow

The anus muscle also tends to clench closed when you are nervous or scared. If your goal is penetrative anal sex and you have no experience with anal play, give yourself multiple sex sessions to become accustomed to the new sensations.

Start With Lube

Your tongue feels good because it's wet. So, lube your fingers up and start by softly rubbing your lubricated fingers over your partner's anus.

Start Horny

As mentioned, being nervous doesn't help anal sex. To get relaxed, have an orgasm first or if you prefer to save orgasms till the end, at least get warmed up.

Start Small

Unless the guy doing the penetration is lucky enough to have a very slim penis, anal sex for beginners just doesn't work so well. Start with something smaller. See the toys below 

Communicate

Putting things in your own ass is easy because you don't have to talk. You just feel and adjust what you're doing "in real time". When it's you and your partner, you have to direct or follow directions. Listening carefully and watching your partner's reactions are key.

Toys for Beginners

The follow toys are all made from quality, body safe silicone.

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Lube for Anal Play

Because the recommended beginner anal toys above are all made from silicone, and silicone lube is known to degrade silicone toys, we recommend the following quality water based lubricants for all anal play.

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Anal Sex Safety

Anal sex can be a lot of fun. It is an extremely intimate form of love making. In addition to the fun and intimacy, some people also consider anal sex to be a form of birth control - similar to the withdraw method.

However, even though heterosexual couples may equate birth control with safe sex, unprotected anal sex is not safe sex and participating in anal sex without a condom can expose you to STIs. Condoms are the only way to seriously protect against STIs.